Cal Lane est une artiste canadienne. Depuis 10 ans elle fait de la dentelle à base de motifs floraux ou religieux avec des objets en métal et autres supports en tôle, feuille d’aluminium ou d’acier. Tout y passe, fûts d’essence, pelles, capots de voiture, containers.
Beautiful artwork! FANTASTIC !!!
Cal Lane is a Canadian artist. For 10 years she has been making lace based on floral or religious motifs with metal objects and other supports made of sheet metal, aluminum foil or steel. Everything goes there, gasoline drums, shovels, car hoods, containers.
if you only have one person in your life that you trust, you probably are always going to turn to that person when something shit happens. as well as whenever something good happens. or anything else. this is not inherently a bad thing, and it’s really beautiful to have someone in your life that you trust so much
but if that person is suddenly busy or going through something difficult themselves or doesn’t have emotional capacity for a while, suddenly there’s a problem. not necessarily through any fault of your own, you don’t have anyone to turn to with as much regularity as you did before
this is true of any kind of relationship. this is true of any kind of coping mechanism, also. the problem is not that you trust that person. the problem is not that you use that coping mechanism. the problem is not even that there’s something wrong with you and that it’s all your fault. the problem is that nothing can be everything
the solution is not to cut off your one trusted person or to cut yourself off from your one trusted coping mechanism. the solution is to do the difficult work of diversifying your life as much as it’s possible for you to do. which is why it sucks so much when external factors prevent you from being able to live a truly diverse life. okay that’s all have a good one
bitch this is all you’re gonna get. this life, this face, this body. you better not ‘maybe in another universe’ your way out of everything. sit your ass down and face this. go make tea and have a picnic and read a goddamn book. kiss your loved ones, send that damn text, and hug your siblings. this is all you’re gonna get.